10 WAYS TO STAY FOREVER IN LOVE!

We all wish to be forever in love with that special someone in our lives but are we really doing what it takes?

Staying in love with someone needs a lot of effort from you and your partner. So are you really serious about staying in love with that special person in your life?

Below are 10 ways to stay forever in love

1. When was the last time you told your partner “I love you”? You need to stop assuming your partner knows. Your partner wants you to reassure them of your unending love daily. Never forget to always say “I love you”.

2. Never let a day pass without communicating with your partner. I know you always hear this but we can’t stop emphasising on the importance of communication. Ensure you call or send a message to your partner daily. Your partner needs to know they are always in your thoughts.

3. Do you trust your partner? Never be with someone you cannot trust. Trust is important in every relationship. A relationship without trust is doomed to fail. To stay forever in love with your partner, trust in the relationship is important. Trust is one element that can either make or break your relationship.

4. For you to stay in love with your partner forever, you have to learn to pick your battles wisely. You should understand that you don’t have to win every argument with your partner, you have to learn to lose some battles because some fights are just pointless.

5. When was the last time you praised your partner? Some can’t even remember. For you to stay forever in love with your partner, you have to learn how to praise your partner. It’s always nice to hear kind words from your partner. Be proud of your partner’s achievements too.

6. Respect in every relationship is really important. You can’t stay forever in love with your partner if you don’t respect your partner. Some persons believe their partner has to do everything they want them to do but I really think it’s wrong. You should understand you and your partner are two different beings and your partner must not always share your opinion. Also learn not to force your partner into doing things your partner really isn’t comfortable doing.

7. If you want to stay forever in love with your partner, you have to learn how to appreciate the good things about your partner. It’s so easy to focus on the flaws of your partner but you have to learn to pay attention to the good things about your partner.

8. Bring spontaneous would help you stay forever in love with your partner. When was the last time you went on a date with your partner on an ordinary day?Monotony don’t help relationships.

9. You have to do the things your partner likes sometimes so they would be happy if you want to stay forever in love.

10. Quality time with your partner is important if you want to stay forever in love with your partner. Also learn to be kind and courteous.

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6 TIPS THAT WILL HELP YOU RECOVER FROM A HEARTBREAK!

Heartbreaks can be traumatic especially when the breakup is unexpected or sudden and it can live a mark on you forever if you don’t heal properly.

The following tips will generally help you recover from a heartbreak

1. LET IT OUT AND CRY IF YOU FEEL LIKE

One mistake many make after a heartbreak is trying to suppress the emotions after a heartbreak. The emotions after a heartbreak can be so intense so it’s important you let it out. So go somewhere private and let it out. Cry, yell, scream, do what ever you feel would help you release those intense emotions. Don’t suppress them.

2. TALK TO PEOPLE WHO CARE ABOUT YOU

It’s important you are around people who care about you after a heartbreak. Don’t just keep to yourself after a heartbreak; be in a company of supportive people who will help you through this difficult time.

3. TAKE PROPER CARE OF YOURSELF

It’s normal to lose appetite and avoid eating after a heartbreak but it’s really important you eat properly during this period. This is also why it’s important you are with supportive people as they will make sure you eat during this period.

4. EXERCISE

If you don’t normally exercise, you should consider it after a heartbreak. If you exercise regularly, then continue exercising even after the heartbreak. Exercising is important after a heartbreak because it helps you release all the anger inside of you gotten from the heartbreak.

5. HAVE FUN WITH FRIENDS

Staying indoors all day after a heartbreak will not help you heal but only worsen the situation. Go out with friends and have fun. Try exciting things with your friends.

6. MEET NEW PEOPLE BUT STAY AWAY FROM RELATIONSHIPS

Meeting new people will help you during your recovery from a heartbreak because it sort of helps rebuild your pride and confidence again. While you make new friends, it’s important you don’t jump into a relationship. It’s important you give yourself a break from relationships for at least three months.

And when you think you are ready for a new relationship, take it slow and steady.

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6 SUCCESS LESSONS TO LEARN FROM BILL GATES!

To be the best, you have to learn from the best. Success is a journey, one that starts from many miles away but people only notice when you’ve passed through the hurdles.

There are so many lessons to learn from Bill Gates, and it would help shape your path to success.

1. FAILURE IS NEVER THE END

Every successful person has failed at one point in time and Bill Gates isn’t any different. His first company Traf-O-Data failed because the product Traf-O-Data 8008 which was meant to read traffic tapes and process data wouldn’t work when they tried to sell it to a local county. Bill Gates didn’t stop at this venture and still went on to be the wealthiest man in the world, meaning failure is only possible when you give up.

2. LEARN FROM EACH FAILURE

Learning from a failure is a key ingredient to success, and it’s one Bill Gates rode on to success. Bill Gates and the co-founder of Microsoft, Paul Allen never gave up, they learnt from the mistakes of Traf-O-Data, and today they are the founders of one of the most successful companies in the world – Microsoft. According to Paul Allen: “Even though Traf-O-Data wasn’t a roaring success, it was seminal in preparing us to make Microsoft’s first product a couple of years later”.

In 2011, Paul Allen told Newsweek: “Since then, I have made my share of business mistakes, but Traf-O-Data remains my favorite mistake because it confirmed to me that every failure contains the seeds of your next success.

3. SEEK FOR KNOWLEDGE

People are too lazy to seek for knowledge these days, and you can hardly be successful when you lack knowledge. Bill Gates has always been an avid reader right from his childhood days; he was curious for knowledge and that curiosity helped him become one of the most successful programmers the world would ever know.

According to Bill Gates: “I really had a lot of dreams when I was a kid, and I think a great deal of that grew out of the fact that I had a chance to read a lot.”

Knowledge and curiosity go hand in hand, and they are essential for success.

4. DRIVE/AIM

Never set limitations to your thinking, and that’s one trait that pushed Bill Gates to success. Inasmuch as Traf-O-Data didn’t succeed, the thinking behind it wasn’t average; it was extraordinary and beyond normal. Microsoft was born out of that pattern of thinking.

Paul Allen described Bill Gates as one with a drive for success and a highly competitive and persistent person.

5. FOCUS

You can’t succeed if you are carried away or easily distracted from your goal. Focus is one of the highlights of Bill Gates success, and according to Paul Allen: “Where I was curious to study everything in sight, Bill would focus on one task at a time with total discipline. You could see it when he programmed—he’d sit with a marker clenched in his mouth, tapping his feet and rocking, impervious to distraction.”

6. HAVE A GREAT TEAM

You can hardly ever do it alone, having a great team is really important. Every great president is as good as his cabinet; every CEO is as good as his workforce. According to Paul Allen: “Bill never wanted to lose talented people. ‘If this guy leaves,’ he’d say to me, ‘we’ll lose all our momentum.’”

These six characters have an important influence on Bill Gates road to success: it’s never too late; you can build your way to success too. Start today.

Jake        

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